Hey guys,
We have all heard of the Wingman. Probably mostly from movies and television, but the Wingman is very much real and important. If I had a dollar for every time I got screwed over and had to take the hit for my boys so they could get the girls they wanted, I'd give Bill Gates a run for his money as the richest man in the world. Yeah it sounds pathetic, but they have done the same for me countless times. Guys I want you to engrave the term DUFF in your heads. Or more commonly known as the dumb ugly fat friend. Yes we all know that it is not a nice term, but every group of hot girls has one for one reason or another. I want you guys to understand that just because you are stuck with the DUFF, it doesn't mean that you are inferior to your friends. Look at it as a story, and even an esteem booster for the girl. And on top of all that, it gives you a reason to make your friends do you a favor later on. As I stated earlier, I have been in this situation for better or for worse too many times to count. I want to know if any of you have any questions or situations related to it and I'll tell you what Tom McCann would do. Cheers.
Alright stud lets see how you handle this one. I'm currently stuck between a rock and a hard place. I hit up this girl to hangout and see whats going on, looking for nothing serious. But the girl will not stop hitting me up. We hung out twice and hits me up on the reg. I'm not interested in her after hanging out those times, but i don't have the heart to say I'm not that into her. How do i let this girl down easy with out her going psychotic on my ass?
ReplyDeleteHa ha oh man. I feel you on this one, and I know just how bad of a situation it can be. I guess the first thing you have to evaluate is just how crazy this girl seems. I am guessing she is pretty damn crazy since you said the words "going psychotic on my ass". I know me telling you to lie is not great advice but honesty is not always the best policy. And in this case, far from it. It sounds like she doesn't know much about you so I would just say you got stuff going on in your personal/family life and just distance yourself. And if that doesn't work then you got two choices. Tell her she was just a two time thing and to just deal with it, or give in and just keep her around. An obsessive girl is still better than no girl right? Haha
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